Children’s upbringing- The Islamic Way

 

Nikah was commanded by Allah so that Halal relationships can be maintained to make children and extend families. As soon as a Muslin couple enters parenthood, there is excitement and responsibilities. We have already talked about the responsibilities as Muslim parents in our previous blog article. If you have not yet read it, here is the link: Your bag of responsibilities as Muslim Parents.

Today, let us dig deeper and know how can we improve our contribution while reducing the influence of western culture on our children

We are living in a secular and free society that is majorly ruled by western psychology. Each ine of us is prone to the risk of adopting a foreign lifestyle that is completely poopsite from our Deen. Be it education, entertainment, housing, hospitality; Muslim societies are constant challenges by western influences with modern principles. In such a scenario, what can constitute the key components of your child’s upbringing. The important components that will ensure that your child is enlighted with the knowledge of hs Deen and do not astray form the right path.

Here are some habits that you can try to cultivate in your home.

1. Fist and foremost, while teaching your child the local language, do not miss out on giving your child Urdu and Arabic Lessons. It is very important to read Muslim-centric books for overall personality development.
2. You can enroll your child in some Muslim classes where basic manners and basic knowledge of Islam is imparted. You would never want your child to sit blankly in a Muslim gathering.
3. Make sure that first, you hire a Maulana or a guide whom you find appropriate who will teach your child how to recite Qur’an. Qur’an shows every Muslim how to live. So, finishing the book at an early age is very important.
4. If you are a working parent, then while hiring a nanny take care that she is a Muslimah and has authentic knowledge about Deen. This way your child will learn lessons that will forever remain in his/ her subconsciousness.
5. Children are believed to be the best observesers. They act what they see. Therefore, create a culture in your home where offering Namaz, reciting Qur’an, Dhikr of Allah are the part of your daily activities. Your child will also learn the same thing.
6. If you are residing in a non-Muslim country, then find a Muslim neighbourhood because environent has a dep impact. Muslim neighborhood will help to einforce similra religious practices.
7. Indulge your children in the significant days of Islam and in festivals like Eid-ul-fitr and Eid-ul-Zuha. Make your children learn the lesson hidden in those stories.
8. It is the duty of both father and mother to eduacte your child of the Sunnah of the Prophet (P.B.U.H.). Your child must know the blessings of following those Sunnah.
9. Make efforts in finding a Muslim school. Today there are a number of Muslim universities and educational institutions in India as well as abroad which imparts quality education while protecting your children’s Deen.
10. You should use a balance of love and authroty over your children. This means frequently checing on them, being arware of theur friend’s group, their daily activities, and involving in their performance at schools.

These are few of the tips that you can follow as Muslim parents help your child grow with an Islamic perspective. He should knwo the purpose of life as a Muslim while achieving his dreams. It is very important to not to lose the founadtional ground even after hugely successful. So, play a crucial rolei protecting the Deen of your child. Act cautiously and do not be bluffed with the sparkly modern trends of western society.